留学国外学业再忙碌 也不应忽视父母(图)

郑义

　　2010年5月毕业于青岛GAC- 中心及青岛第九中学

　　2010年8月开始就读于美国内布拉斯加大学林肯校区

　　Two years One lesson

　　My name is Yi Zheng. I am studying undergraduate at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln right now. I am majoring in Finance with a minor in Mathbeginningthis fall. I am glad to appear in this yearbook and would like to share somethinglearned in the U.S. and I have some advice for students who are trying to study abroad in the future.

　　Leaving for another country in the 20swas not an easy job for me and my parents needed to face the reality that they could not watch me out in the future. Better education? Or keep me around them? They chose the education. In return, I proved them that they made the right choice. I lived up to all the financial and emotional investments they put on me-- I worked hard in school, earned good grades and carried out lots of academic and other projects.

　　Everything in school is fantastic exceptwhatI really regretnot to have spent as much time with my family as I should. Once this year, my best friend here was mad at me and said "what the hell are you doing everyday? Your parents asked me about how you are doing here."

　　His words touched the bottom of heart. I felt terrible about me-- my parents had to ask my friend to know how I was. It was my fault not telling them what I have been doing in school. Then, I begin to look back at me and think about life.Anybody might betray you except your parents. They will always stand next to you and back you up. I spent two years finding out the truth. They are getting old but I can do nothing to prevent that. I cannot even be with them and talk to them. My selfishness pushed me too hard to work towards my dream. I did not stop to think until that day.

　　After that day,being busy was not an excuse. I began to care about my family members. I need to take theemotionalresponsibilities for my family because I am not a young kid anymore. I don’t want to see any future fellows to have the same regrets with me, sitting in a corner and writingabout this lesson with tears in my eyes. My only advice to everyone is--say "I love you" to your mom and dad after you read my words and give them a big hug because you cannot do this simple thing when your parents are no longer next to youwhen you are in another country.

　　两年求学生涯，一个人生感悟

　　我叫郑义，我现在就读于内布拉斯加大学林肯校区。我的专业是金融，并在今年秋季起副修数学专业。很高兴能够出现在这本年鉴册里，我想与大家分享一些我在美国的经历，同时也有一些忠告想要告诉给未来赴海外留学的学弟学妹们。

　　在二十岁左右的时候踏上另一片国土对我和我的家庭当时都是一个挑战。当时我的父母必须面对的一个事实是，他们再也无法在我的左右照顾我了。选择更好的教育机会抑或选择把我留在身边？最终他们选择了给我机会让我去美国接受更优秀的教育。作为回报，我向他们证明了他们的选择是正确的。我没有辜负他们所有的金钱和情感付出——我在大学里刻苦学习，取得很好的成绩，同时参与了大量与学术相关的项目。

　　大学里一切都很好，只有一件事让我不安——我真的很悔恨我没有用足够的时间和家人好好相处。今年某一天，我在大学里的一个最好的朋友找到我“你每天到底在干什么？你过的咋样你父母都来问我了“

　　他的话深深的触动了我。我感觉糟透了——父母为了知道我过得好不好竟然去问我的朋友。都是我的错，学校里是有很多苦，但我不该和爸妈闭口不谈在学校的事。我开始回头看我自己，思考人生。一生当中身边的人都可以背叛你，唯有父母永远在你左右，为你加油打气。我用了两年时间才悟出这个道理。父母一天天老去，而我却束手无策无法阻止他们变老。我甚至都无法陪着他们和他们说话。我太自私了，只顾着自己的梦想刻苦努力，却忽视了父母。直到那天我才开始思考这些。

　　从那天起，“忙”不再是一个借口。我开始多关心我的家人了。我不再年少，应该多承担一些对父母的情感责任。我不希望未来的学弟学妹们也有这样的悔恨，坐在角落里暗自流泪写下这些教训。所以，我对每个人的忠告只有一个——读完这篇文字向父母表达爱和感激，紧紧的拥抱他们。生命有限，子欲养而亲不待，当父母不在身边的时候，我们就再也没有机会去爱他们和拥抱他们了。

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